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Aging Out Loud Video Series
Chapter #1 "Coming Out" Chapter #2 "What does today's New Old look like?" Informal testing video: " Smoke Detectors" What do you think?...
Johanina Wikoff
Aug 14, 20201 min read
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The Lover I Used To Be
Sometimes I think about the lover I used to be. Not the fumbling adolescent, in awe and terrified at being alone with a naked female human
Andy Milberg
Aug 11, 20204 min read
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Too Soon Sex
A young male client came to see me recently with a problem. “I had sex with someone on our second date and now she won’t leave me alone.
Andy Milberg
Aug 11, 20203 min read
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The Field of Big Love
Our deepest longing is to be loved. Our deepest fear is that we are unlovable.
This primal fear has its roots in our childhood when we are
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 202012 min read
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Asking For What You Want
Whether you have been taught not to ask for anything, or are afraid you might take the magic out of the moment, discovering...
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 20207 min read
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Tantric Sex - An Erotic Meditation.
According to Hindu mythology, the sexual and spiritual union of Shiva with Shakti gave birth to the universe. The god Shiva is seen as...
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 20208 min read
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Just Love. No Agenda.
The best lovemaking happens when we have gone beyond giving and getting, thinking and striving; when we let go of technique and agendas and
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 20206 min read
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10 Sure Fire Ways To Have A Great Relationship
Learn to appreciate the “not you” in your partner.
Be open, interested and curious about who your partner is and what matters to them.
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 20201 min read
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Rediscovering Desire
Rose is on the red-eye flight back home to San Francisco after making love with her new boyfriend Charlie for the first time.
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Aug 11, 20208 min read
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Aging Out Loud
Last night I watched the movie Wild with Reece Witherspoon portraying the true story of a young woman, Cheryl Strayed who walked the...
Johanina Wikoff, Phd.
Mar 1, 20153 min read
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